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Child Grief Recovery – Should My Child Attend the Funeral?

Child Grief Recovery – Should My Child Attend the Funeral?

Yes! Your Child Should Attend the Funeral One of the most disenfranchised griefs is that of a child.  Adults do not treat childrens’ grief as a serious and legitimate concern and in many cases discount their needs.  One such discounting is preventing the child from saying a final “goodbye”.  Well intentioned adults frequently leave children at home during a funeral.  This is even the case when the person who died was a primary caregiver to the child.  It is important for a child to attend the funeral of a loved one for the child grief recovery, but a few things

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Helping Infants and Toddlers Heal From Grief – Child Grief Education

Helping Infants and Toddlers Heal From Grief – Child Grief Education

Child Grief Education: How Do I Help a Grieving Baby? Even though a baby may not be as mentally developed as a child or adult, a baby can still grieve.  In past articles, we discussed attachment disorders that can result from poor parenting and bond forming.  Since a baby can form bonds and love, a baby can also grieve.  It saddens many to think of a grieving baby, but when a baby loses his mother or father or any primary caregiver, the baby will grieve. In regards to infants, grief counselors should encourage primary caregivers to assure the child that basic care and needs

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Adolescent Grief Counseling: Helping Teens Through Death and Grief

Adolescent Grief Counseling: Helping Teens Through Death and Grief

Teenagers Need Special Consideration During Grief   Teenagers are hard to understand due to a multitude of life changes.  First and foremost, their bodies are changing. Hormones are flowing through their blood, altering and changing them into young adults.  While these changes may occur physically, in many cases, there still exists a child that is confused.  Secondly, teenagers are dealing with an array of pressures at school and among peers.  As the teenager attempts to discover his or her self identity, he or she is confronted with new ideals that may contradict ideals at home.  The lack of self confidence, changing physical features and the inner

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Books on Child Grief – “Daddy’s Gone” Explores the Mind of Child

Books on Child Grief – “Daddy’s Gone” Explores the Mind of Child

A Book for the Grieving Child Millie Richmond’s short illustrated story about a boy who loses his father shows the emotions and thoughts of a little boy who is experiencing grief.  The book illustrates what the child thinks in response to well intentioned but uninformed adults who hope to guide the child through grief.  From the pastor to the boy’s aunt, one finds a variety of common things usually said to children in grief that are detrimental to the child’s grief recovery. In this way, “Daddy’s Gone” not only can be therapeutical for a child but also informative for an adult

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Child Grief Counsleling Certification Program: Using Play Therapy in Child Grief Counseling

Child Grief Counsleling Certification Program: Using Play Therapy in Child Grief Counseling

Finding Grief Through Play The mind of a child differs greatly than an adult.  This is due to an array of psychological and biological differences than stem from a lack of development in the brain.  It is important for grief counselors who specialize in grief and adolescent grief care to understand these differences because they directly effect how children grieve. In the case of younger children, grief can be found in many things, most notably play.  The child’s need to play is not only for fun but is a way a child communicates and expresses herself.  Through this expression, a counselor or psychologist

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Companioning the Grieving Child

Companioning the Grieving Child

Treatment versus Companioning the Grieving Child Treatment of grief is a very cold term.  In some ways, it sees grief as a pathology in itself.  Is not the very meaning of treatment to ”cure”?  Grief cannot be cured but neither is it pathological.  It is a natural feeling that comes with the ability to love.  Hence grief is part of the human condition and can only be cared for in regards with coping, accepting and accomodating loss into one’s life.  Companioning the grieving child is less about curing but walking with the grieving child.  It sees grief as a process and not an event. Dr. Wolfelt

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Child Grief Counseling and Bereavement Education: Dimensions of Child Grief

Child Grief Counseling and Bereavement Education: Dimensions of Child Grief

Child Grief and Its Manifestations Child grief manifests itself in many ways.  The child and adolescent grief counselor can pinpoint these manifestations and help adults better understand what their child is feeling.  If anyone is familiar with or has children, some of these manifestations may have been seen in a child you know.  Here is a list of Dimensions of Child Grief to look for. 1. Shock or apparent lack of feeling.  Children sometimes show no emotion and will simply ignore the obvious and go outside and play.  This does not mean it does not affect the child and it should be not be

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The Healing of the Grieving Child

The Healing of the Grieving Child

Six Reconciliation Needs of the Grieving Child When children grieve they need to meet various tasks in overcoming their grief and adjusting to the post grief world.  It is also important for grief counselors, parents, and concerned adults to help the grieving child meet these needs to adjust. The first task or need is for the child to acknowledge the death. In helping a child acknowledge this, it is important for adults to convey the finality and concrete nature of death.  Examples should include telling the child that we will no longer see the body walk, talk or breathe.  In addition to this, it is

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Program in Child Grief Counseling: Ten Misconceptions About Grieving Children

Program in Child Grief Counseling: Ten Misconceptions About Grieving Children

Mistakes Adults Make About Grieving Children Adults make many mistakes about the nature of child grief.  Maybe they are well intentioned mistakes or maybe the parent or adult merely cannot handle his or her own grief.  Regardless, misconceptions about how to handle grief and children can lead to major problems down the road.  Alan Wolfelt lists ten misconceptions about grief below. 1. Grief and Mourning are the same experience.  The reality is mourning is the external expression of grief. 2. Children Grieve for only a short time.  Grief is a process not an event and children will experience the grief due to the

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Child and Adolescent Grief: Advice from the Companioning the Grieving Child

Child and Adolescent Grief: Advice from the Companioning the Grieving Child

Grief Rights for Kids The improper handling of children grief leads to many future problems for the child.  Well intentioned adults many times offer the wrong advice or entirely ignore the issue at hand.  Alan Wolfelt offers these grief rights to children in their grieving. 1.  The right to have my own unique feeling about death. 2. The right to talk about the death when I feel comfortable to do so 3. The right to express grief how I feel 4. The right to ask and receive help during grief from adults 5. During grief, the right to get upset about normal and everyday problems 6.